Saturday, June 15, 2013

Surgery #2 at Seattle Children's Hospital.... PSARP.... will be JULY 1ST!!

June 12, 2013

We had our Pre-op diagnostic testing and clinic appointment for B'Elanna's Posterior Sagitatal Anorectoplasty (PSARP) or pull-through procedure.  But before we went to Seattle Children's Hospital, we stopped at JoAnn's to check out their fabric selection.  After awhile... B'Elanna got a bit bored... as you can tell from this picture.

With the car packed with fabric, we headed off to Seattle Children's Hospital.   We arrived right before our Barium Enema appointment... only to find out it had been scheduled for July 12th instead of June 12th.   Well, they fit us in... but as soon as I changed her into the gown... she started screaming.   Then when they started the actual procedure... she bucked and jived and screamed until she was shaking... and after about 30 minutes of them trying, the Doctor said we could have to come back and have her sedated for the procedure.   I told them we would need to do it that night, the next morning or right before her surgery.   They were able to get us scheduled for tomorrow morning at 9am sedation and 10:30 procedure.  

Afterwards, we had our clinic appointment with Dr. Avansino.   He was very patient with me and ALL my questions.   He let me know:
  • B'Elanna will have her surgery on JULY 1ST!!
  • Yes their will be scar tissue from her 1st surgery in China.  His main concern is the amount of scarring their may be between the vagina and rectal walls.    If their is alot... the main concern will be concern of a fistula forming.
  • The surgery should be about 3 hours long.
  • We should be in hospital for about 5-7 days... but considering our drive home to MT... he may keep us a little bit longer.
  • The anal dilation's will go up to 14mm (possibly more) and will continue for about 8-9 months.  
  • The dilators will be provided by the hospital and billed to insurance... I do not need to go through Amazon to find them.
  • They will have a Child Life Specialist consult with me while we are in hospital to come up with strategies for how to do the dilation's twice a day, by myself... when most of my friends on FB say that it takes both parents to be able to do the dilation's on their kids.
  • From discharge to the post-op clinic appointment, B'Elanna will not be able to ride on my hip or on straddle toys.   Extreme limiting her activities is not necessary... she will pretty much self-regulate he said.   It will be better for her to be lying down or walking instead of sitting on her butt while recovering.
  • After the post-op clinic appointment, she should be able to go swimming and most other activities.
The next day, Thursday, we came back for the Sedated Barium Enema appointment...it went SO much better.   For now on, B'Elanna will be sedated for ALL her Procedures!!!!   Then we got on the road for Spokane and, thankfully, Little Miss fell asleep for most of the drive.

On Friday, I went into the Spokane office for one of my applicants commissioning ceremonies and took B'Elanna with me.   My friend, Aimee, brought her daughter, Goose, to work too, so the girls could entertain each other.   This was the second time the girls have met and as you can see... they hit it right off.

Montana Adoption

June 6, 2013

So in order to get B'Elanna a Montana Birth Certificate, we had to go to court and have her adoption formally recognized by Montana.
B'Elanna with our attorney!    And B'Elanna and I on Montana Adoption Day - 6/6/2013
The Judge on our case had his 2 dogs waiting behind the bench to meet B'Elanna after the hearing!!
With our Judge on Montana Adoption Day 6/6/2013
Look at B'Elanna's smile... so different than our Gotcha Day!!

B'Elanna's New Slide

June 1, 2013

Today B'Elanna got her new slide.... I think she likes it!!

2013 Professional Pictures

B'Elanna and I got our picture taken back in April... on our 8 month anniversary actually... but I just got the disk of pictures recently.    I don't know if it will be possible, but I am going to try and have our picture taken together around the same time every year.   Just in time for Mother's Day!!

These are some of my favorites...




9 Month's Anniversary.... MEMORIAL DAY!!

May 21, 2013
B'Elanna had a medical appt today.... where we got her height and weight.

China Height:   33.5 inches............ Today's height:  35  (Gained: 1.5 inches in 9 months)
China Weight:  22.5 pounds.......... Today's weight: 27  (Gained:  4.5 pounds in 9 months)

May 27, 2013.... Memorial Day Celebrations!!!

So every Memorial Day while I have been stationed in Missoula, I have taken part in the Memorial Day Wreath Laying Ceremonies.   This year was extra special, because B'Elanna is here and my Mom (Grammy) and my aunts (Nai Nai and Tante Noonie) came to watch her during the day AND me in the ceremonies.